Sex between two lovers has to be beautiful. It must be sensual, warm, an expression of honest love between the two. A sexual act is the most near and intimate two grownups can come to each other. It is an act like a dance, mildly and strong, amusing and powerful, romantic and wild, sweet and hard, magical and peaceful, it is music played in an orchestra for two.

We must show our true self to each other in a sexual unification. In this meeting between two open hearts, we must have courage to be vulnerable. Here we show each other, what we do not show to others. Sex is private, therefore sex demands trust.

Any feeling can come to light in sexual acts, can open for communication and solving of challenges and tenseness that we find difficult reveal in everyday life.
Eroticism is the passionate spiritual stimulation part of the physical love, also about the sensual sensing part of love.

Here lust becomes love – love becomes lust. This is where a beautiful physical emotional meeting can lead to higher spirituality and deeper feelings within the couple.

Nature of the male and female sexuality is different. The male nature is giving, conquering, possessing, expression out from them selves. The female sexuality is receiving, embracing, surrendering and letting into them selves.

In general many men are visually attracted, get tempted and excited when they see a beautiful woman, watch the grace of her movements and how she behaves. Many women get generally auditory attracted, mostly get tempted, exited by hearing sounds and reading a mans words. It is often important, what a man say to her and the way he says it.

Women should know that can they excite a man by pleasing his eyes. Men should know that they can excite a woman just by talking, without touching her at all. Both should be caring in how they give and receive love.
Be sensual, sensing and sensitive.